11 Things That Make Introverts Happy
The ways that introverts go about their lives may seem confusing to the extroverts of the world.
People often wonder, “why are they so quiet” or “they must not like anybody.” However, neither of these thoughts is an accurate way to describe an introvert.
While an introvert's mind, heart, and soul strongly differ from an extrovert, all it takes is some education and understanding to see what introverts love. In this article, we’ll explain just that.
By the end, you’ll have a better understanding of the things introverts love.
1. Deep Conversation
Talking to someone can take up a lot of energy, no matter who it’s with. If an introvert is going to have a conversation, they want to make the most of it right away.
Small talk is not an introvert’s friend. It doesn’t provide any sustenance, feels inauthentic, and creates a waste of time for the less extroverted among us.
Instead of having a surface-level conversation, engage in a deep discussion. One thing introverts love is using their minds to understand deeper meanings. For example, ask their opinions about a controversial topic instead of a typical “how are you.”
As a result, introverts will find the interaction much more rewarding.
2. Solitude
We live in a hustle culture and society. We’re always on the go, interacting with strangers, and finding ourselves in crowded places, like the subway during rush hour. Everyone needs some form of reward after a long day.
While you may see an introvert engage with others, what you don’t see is that they’re slowly being drained as the day goes on. A reward for an introvert is solitude. A space away from all of the noise and business. Somewhere where they can just exist in peace without interruption.
Give an introvert this when they need it, and they’ll be happier for it.
3. Recharge Time
The main differentiation between introverts and extroverts is how they gain and lose energy. Extroverts gain energy by being around others. They like being in groups and are more likely to initiate interaction and love parties. When they’re alone for too long, they begin to feel drained.
That’s not to say that’s what introverts don’t do for fun. But after a certain time, these activities will significantly drain an introvert. While those activities are fun, introverts will enjoy having some time to recharge for the next social outing. Like a car with no battery, an introvert with no recharge time can’t function at their best.
4. Allowing Silence
In the right setting, you’ll have a great time with an introvert. They’re super outgoing, talkative, and in a great mood; you love every minute of it, and so do they.
If, at some sudden point that things start to get silent, allow it. That’s something they enjoy. And just because they love silence doesn’t mean it needs to be awkward. The silence doesn’t mean the introvert has become disinterested in your presence or the time with you. In fact, they may just be enjoying the time with you, even in silence.
There’s no need to feel awkward about it. They’re still very comfortable around you, so you can still feel comfortable in the quietness alongside them.
5. Hobbies
Everybody has an activity that makes them happy. Whether it be long drives, music, or a good show. What people have for personal hobbies varies based on the individual. What introverts do for fun is absorb their hobbies to the fullest. Some examples of hobbies they’ll dive into deeply include:
• Taking long, quiet walks in nature
• Obsessing over a compelling book or tv show
• Writing their thoughts in a journal
• Appreciating art at a museum, gallery, or concert
Hobbies like these allow introverts to get involved, explore their minds, and look around at their own world. Let them be in their natural element, so to speak.
6. Thinking Time
Introverts are heavy thinkers. They analyze a situation, thinking of the long-term results rather than the short-term.
If you present something to an introvert, give them time to think. They must come up with what they deem the best option. This is because whatever they’re thinking won’t translate into words right away.
Give their brains time to get their ideas or decisions out. Rushed thoughts will cause them to feel irritated or say something that wouldn’t represent their best input.
7. Smaller Gatherings
First, let’s debunk the myth that introverts don’t like people. Some are very sociable, party-going people. That being said, they still get drained quickly in these environments.
If they want to hang with you and their friends, do it on a smaller scale. They still get time with people they care about but with less overstimulation and fewer people to drain them.
8. Uninterrupted Work Time
Speaking of thinking time, allowing uninterrupted work time is necessary as well.
Don’t rudely disturb them while they’re in the zone. This is when they’re in their best or deepest thoughts. Interrupting an introvert messes up their workflow and means they have to reestablish their focus which they probably worked hard to hone.
This applies to work, journaling, creating art, essentially anything.
9. Animals
This source of joy may not be true for every introvert, but it is for many of them. Whether it’s a dog, cat, or fish, an animal companion is sometimes the perfect one. They don’t require conversation and supply an endless amount of unconditional love.
Introverts have a naturally kind and caring nature, making them excellent pet parents. They are happiest when they have their furry (or scaled) friend by their side, providing quiet, steady company.
10. Texts Over Phone Calls
Returning to the silence topic, when communicating on the phone, choose texting over calling.
Phone calls open the opportunity for silence. Even though they like silence, it could get awkward at some point. Avoid this by enjoying a text conversation. Just let your introverted friend know when your thumbs start getting tired.
If you do call, as mentioned earlier, embrace the silence once in a while.
11. Working Alone
When it comes to projects, working in groups is not pleasant for an introvert.
They'll tolerate it if they pick the group based on a person’s work ethic or personal bond. Otherwise, it’s not fun.
Working alone lets an introvert focus solely on their work without relying on anyone else to get it done. In their head, they’ll have the best results working independently.
In these ideal circumstances, there will be minimal distractions, and the introvert will be able to retain their full energy levels.
Introverts Find Happiness Differently
While their ways of having fun, finding peace, or feeling energized are different, they’re not hard to understand.
Give an introvert these 11 conditions we discussed, and you’ll see pure happiness in their demeanor.